SOMETHING YOU NEVER KNEW ABOUT TRUST

SOMETHING YOU NEVER KNEW ABOUT TRUST

Trust is to show confidence in a person by intrusting him or her with something, to commit something in to someone’s care. Also it’s a risk, an adventure one must take confidently, to hope confidently, to believe usually with a phrase or infinitive clause as the object, to give credence to; to believe and to rely on; to confide or to repose faith.
Trust is earned when actions meet words, to be trusted is a greater compliment than being loved and the best way to find out if you trust someone is to trust them but when that trust is broken, it only teaches us valuable lessons.

Breaking someone’s trust is like crumpling a perfect piece of paper, you can smoothened it but it’s never going to be the same, it’s never going to be that same perfect piece of paper. Betrayal is the worst and the key to moving past it, is to identify what led to it in the first place. If you succeed in cheating someone, don’t think that the person is a fool for being so gullible ….. Just realize that the person trusted you much more you actually deserved….!.

There are three things that qualify a trustable person; someone that sees the sorrow in your smile, someone that sees the love behind your anger and someone that sees the reason behind your silence. Whether it’s friendship, all bonds are built on trust. Without it, you have nothing but everything comes at the right time so be patient and trust the process. Trust is a fragile thing, easy to break and easy to lose and one of the hardest things to get back. The best place to find a helping hand is at the end of your own arm, trust yourself, Trust yourself and you’ll know more than you think you do .Sometimes you don’t know who you can and cannot trust, I still learn that over and over again. Tell yourself: Everything will work out, things will get better. You are important. You are worthy of great things. You are lovable. The time is now. This too, shall pass. You can be who you really are.

The best is yet to come. You are strong. You can do this. We believe what we tell ourselves. Without communication there is no relationship, without respect there is no love and without trust there is no reason to continue, Trust can be gained or lost in the small things as well as in the big areas of life, Trust is like the glue of life, it’s the most essential ingredient in effective communication, it’s the foundational principle that holds all relationships. Trust is one of the three things we shouldn’t break aside promises and someone’s heart. Trust takes years to build, seconds to break and forever to repair. When people ask me why it’s so hard to trust someone, I ask them why it’s so hard to keep a promise. Life has taught me that you can’t control someone’s loyalty. No matter how good you are to them, it doesn’t mean they’ll treat you the same. No matter how much they mean to you, it doesn’t mean they’ll value you the same. Sometimes the people you love the most, turn out to be the people that you can trust the least. Trust is like an eraser, it gets smaller and smaller after every mistake, a bird sitting on a tree is never afraid of the branch breaking, because it’s trust is not on the branch but on its own wings.

Trust leads to approachability and open communications. When God pushes you over the edge of a cliff, trust him because two things are involved, either he catches you or he teaches you how to fly. Give the person you love honesty, respect, trust, love and passion or be prepared to watch from the sidelines as someone else does it, if you trust someone, trust till end whatever the results may be, in the end either you’ll have a good friend or a very good lesson .

Eunice O.


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