WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU’RE IN DOUBT

WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU’RE IN DOUBT

Sometimes people don’t fail because they don’t have the potential or the energy to do it but because they were too busy riding the ‘doubt’ train to failure, taking the ‘doubt train’ is the easiest shortcut to failure. Being doubtful is a fluctuation of mind arising from defect of knowledge of evidence, being uncertain about judgment, being doubtful can lead to and can also be caused by suspicion, fear, apprehension and dread. It also calls for questions, to question and hold questionable, to withhold assent to; to hesitate to believe or to be inclined not to believe; to withhold confidence. Once doubt arrives, the absence of trust also arrives creeping in making itself welcome. Fear and doubt work hand in hand, one can also say they’re almost the same thing, when you’re afraid of doing something, you have doubts, uncertainty, you hesitate and you suspect. Also when you’re in unbelief, when you doubt, you become afraid because you’ve lost that tiny bit of confidence in you and you doubt, you become ambiguous.

Doubts also give rooms to giving up , when you doubt, you get scared , when you get scared , you feel you can’t do it and when that feeling gets in , it opens the door wider for the ‘ I give up’ wind . But when you feel you can’t do it because of doubts , you just need to boost up your confidence, only quitters and losers say “ I can’t do it” because they doubted their capabilities and because they doubted their capabilities and felt they can’t do it, they quit and then they lose the game of life . Of course life isn’t all about winning but if we don’t get up and do it , how are we going to go through, if we don’t persevere and say no to quitting , closing that door that always brings in doubt , how are we going to win . Doubts kills more dreams than an actual failure will ever kill, it’s like poison that kills, it’s not a pleasant condition but certainty is absurd. Positive minds produce positive lives, Negative minds produce negative lives, Positive thoughts are always full of faith and hope, Negative thoughts are always full of fear and doubts and that’s what destroys them.

The path you didn’t take was not taken for a reason, and the path you took was always taken for a reason, so why doubt your preference, trust that you are right where you need to be and believe you didn’t make a mistake in choosing that path ,don’t doubt your choice . Doubt means you’re weak but believing in yourself means you’re strong , when you doubt your power , you give power to your doubt , don’t ever doubt yourself or waste a single second of your life , it’s too short and too special . Whenever you find yourself doubting how far you can go, just remember how far you have come, remember everything you have faced, all the battles you have won and all the fears you have overcome, it is beyond doubt that all our knowledge begins with experience.
Bravery is not the absence of fear. Bravery is feeling the fear, the doubt, and the insecurity but deciding that something else is more important . Step out of the doubt train and look ahead at your bright future , trust it and believe in yourself . Don’t doubt.

Eunice O


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